The More Loving One

by W. H. Auden
   
Looking up at the stars, I know quite well  
That, for all they care, I can go to hell,  
But on earth indifference is the least  
We have to dread from man or beast.  
   
How should we like it were stars to burn  5
With a passion for us we could not return?  
If equal affection cannot be,  
Let the more loving one be me.  
   
Admirer as I think I am  
Of stars that do not give a damn, 10
I cannot, now I see them, say  
I missed one terribly all day.  
   
Were all stars to disappear or die,  
I should learn to look at an empty sky  
And feel its total dark sublime, 15
Though this might take me a little time.